The Undone

You Can Have An Orgasm Without Touching Yourself

The Undone

Show Notes

Have you heard of 'meditative orgasms'? They're orgasms you can achieve with your mind, without touching your genitals at all. Emily gave it a go and the results were, well, explosive. She describes exactly how to achieve this "12/10 experience". Plus, a tweet about the weirdest thing we've gotten in trouble for at work had Em and Lucy laughing, and reflecting on times they've gotten in trouble (perhaps deservedly) in the workplace, and Em reads an anonymous dating story from a listener who saw right through a first date's weird lie. The End Bits Read "I wasn't allowed to laugh." 37 women on the weirdest thing they ever got in trouble for at work. Follow UN Women Australia on TikTok and learn the #EmpowerMoves dance Need extra support right now? Call Lifeline on 13 11 14 or Beyond Blue on 1300 22 4636. Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9 If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review. Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter The Lonely Girls Guide. If you want to share your dating story email us at [email protected] CONTACT US Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386 Send us a voice memo to [email protected] This episode was produced by Emmeline Peterson

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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