THE MARTIN SHOW

102: Jordi Webber | Do You Have To Leave NZ To Become Your Best Self?

THE MARTIN SHOW

Show Notes

Actor and musician Jordi Webber joins me for a conversation about ambition, creativity, identity, and what it really costs to pursue your dreams.

We explore why some people hold onto their biggest dreams while others let them fade, the unseen realities of an artist’s life, and how chasing external validation can slowly disconnect you from yourself. Jordi also opens up about loneliness in his 30s, choosing life over constant work, finding alignment through knowing where you’ve come from and where you’re going, and why spirituality is ultimately the relationship you have with yourself.

We also dive into the state of New Zealand’s creative scene, why artists need to speak up more, and how responsibility can cause many men to lose their sense of play.

If you’ve ever questioned your purpose, felt the pressure to play small, or wondered what it really means to live authentically, this conversation is for you.

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