
The Self-Promotion Problem: How to Advocate for Yourself Without Feeling Icky (Listener Favorite)
Career ContessaShow Notes
Nobody cares more about your career than you, so you need to make yourself and your achievements known. Embrace the skill of self-promotion. Career coach Lindsey Lathrop- Ryan is here to offer: Insight into why self-promotion is so uncomfortable The 4-step strategy that makes self-promotion more effective and way less icky Quick self-promotion tactics that take less than 5 minutes
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