The Covert Narcissism Podcast

What If They Aren't a Covert Narcissist — Now What

The Covert Narcissism Podcast

Show Notes

What if they aren't actually a covert narcissist? What if you're wrong — and you walk away from someone who genuinely loves you? If that question has been keeping you stuck, this episode is for you. Today we talk about why self-doubt is not a character flaw — it is one of the deepest wounds of covert narcissistic abuse. We walk through the four questions to ask yourself when you can't find clarity, why you do not need a diagnosis to deserve better, and the most important reframe of all: what if you're not wrong — you're just afraid you are?

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