The Kink Consultant

Relationship Advice for Kinky Couples with Simone Milasas

The Kink Consultant

Show Notes

Kinky relationships and vanilla relationships might have more in common than you think.

This week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda speaks with Simone Milasas, global facilitator, author, and creator of Access Consciousness, to talk about how the relationship advice she gives to vanilla couples applies just as powerfully to kinky relationships and BDSM dynamics. They cover the five elements of intimacy you need to build with yourself before you can offer them to a partner, the concept of a "creationship" and how it differs from a traditional relationship, and the one question that can either deepen your connection or finally give you both the clarity to move on.

Tune in, get brutally honest with yourself, and find out what becomes possible in your kinky relationships when you stop telling yourself the story that's been keeping you stuck.

Connect with Simone Milasas https://www.simonemilasas.com/ https://www.instagram.com/simonemilasas/ https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMNJfnEjT/

Connect with Amanda ⁠https://www.amandadames.com/⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠

Book A Consult Call with Amanda ⁠https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consult⁠ Download the BDSM Checklist Here: ⁠https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560⁠ Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: ⁠https://www.amandadames.com/store

More from The Kink Consultant

Oct 22, 2026

In the final installment of this special three-part solo series, I am breaking down what to do if your partner says no or freaks out when you share your kink.

Oct 15, 2026

In part two of this special three-part solo series, I am breaking down exactly how to have the conversation with your partner about your kink.

Oct 8, 2026

In the first episode of a special three-part solo series, I am breaking down everything you need to know before you tell your partner you are kinky.

Oct 1, 2026

Melanie Rose, star of Netflix's How to Build a Sex Room, joins the podcast to discuss sex room design, the history of sex toys, and how to create a pleasure space that works for your body and your relationship.

Sep 24, 2026

The hosts of The Kinky Cocktail Hour join the podcast to share their 24/7 D/S dynamic story, how they evolved their relationship over time, and why kink is the way they communicate.

See all episodes →