SURVIVAL - What do you say to a family who has lost hope of anyone being able to help them?

Every parent knows the feeling. Your kid goes from zero to meltdown in seconds, over something that seems completely trivial. In this episode we use Lethal Weapon as our jumping-off point to explore what\'s actually happening in a child\'s brain when anger takes over. We talk about why children\'s brains are wired to detect and react to emotional triggers before they\'re wired to interpret them, why telling a young child to \"just calm down\" is often a developmental mismatch rather than a discipline problem, and why feeling angry and acting aggressively are actually two separate events, which is more hopeful than it sounds. We also explore what the science tells us actually helps when supporting an angry child. We can\'t wait to read your reflections, questions and advice about anger in the kids you love and care for. You can support this podcast by subscribing to the @popcultureparenting YouTube channel, and sharing this episode with anyone you think it can help. Let\'s continue to grow the Pop Culture Parenting community together. JOIN OUR POP CULTURE PARENTING COMMUNITY Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/popcultureparenting TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@popcultureparenting Patreon: @popcultureparenting LISTEN TO THE PODCAST Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/pop-culture-parenting/id1600660063 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3vvbFk8QupQe06UQOwgHj0 Audible: https://www.audible.com.au/podcast/Pop-Culture-Parenting/B08JL52VYK --------------- GUIDING GROWING MINDS Pop Culture Parenting is proudly brought to you by Guiding Growing Minds, a social enterprise that aims to give all children the best opportunity to reach their potential and succeed in living rich and meaningful lives. Learn More: https://www.guidinggrowingminds.com/ --------------- DR. BILLY GARVEY\'S BOOK Ten Things I Wish You Knew About Your Child\'s Mental Health by Dr. Billy Garvey is on bookshelves now: https://www.penguin.com.au/books/ten-things-i-wish-you-knew-about-your-childs-mental-health-9781761345838 Regardless of whether you have a young child or a teen on the brink of adulthood, by understanding the foundations of good mental health, you will be able to help them to thrive at any stage in their development.

The response to our anger episode was one of the most moving we have ever received. In this reflection we hear from parents who grew up around anger they couldn\'t name and are working hard not to repeat those patterns, from a dad who recognised himself in his own mother\'s rage during the most vulnerable weeks of early parenthood, from someone who works with young people in custody for whom anger became the only language they knew, and from a listener whose message stopped us in our tracks. An occupational therapist shares some powerful practices for going slow and meeting our kids where they are. We are also reminded in our closing that anger and love often live much closer together than we think. Thank you for your extraordinary honesty and courage in sharing. We hope this one helps. You can support this podcast by subscribing to the @popcultureparenting YouTube channel, and sharing this episode with anyone you think it can help. Let\'s continue to grow the Pop Culture Parenting community together. JOIN OUR POP CULTURE PARENTING COMMUNITY Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/popcultureparenting TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@popcultureparenting Patreon: @popcultureparenting LISTEN TO THE PODCAST Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/pop-culture-parenting/id1600660063 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3vvbFk8QupQe06UQOwgHj0 Audible: https://www.audible.com.au/podcast/Pop-Culture-Parenting/B08JL52VYK --------------- GUIDING GROWING MINDS Pop Culture Parenting is proudly brought to you by Guiding Growing Minds, a social enterprise that aims to give all children the best opportunity to reach their potential and succeed in living rich and meaningful lives. Learn More: https://www.guidinggrowingminds.com/ --------------- DR. BILLY GARVEY\'S BOOK Ten Things I Wish You Knew About Your Child\'s Mental Health by Dr. Billy Garvey is on bookshelves now: https://www.penguin.com.au/books/ten-things-i-wish-you-knew-about-your-childs-mental-health-9781761345838 Regardless of whether you have a young child or a teen on the brink of adulthood, by understanding the foundations of good mental health, you will be able to help them to thrive at any stage in their development.

Episode 135 is out now! Healthy habits reflection goes deep into the gap between the habits we want and the reality of our lives. We hear extraordinary listener stories, questions and advice. A music professional who survived her own real-life Fletcher and came out the other side with a powerful question about what we teach kids to normalise in the pursuit of excellence. A dad whose chaotic childhood was transformed by one loving parent who proved that presence matters more than proximity when it comes to healthy habits. We cover picky eating, the pressure to quit, habit building for neurodivergent kids, what to do when the scaffolding of school and sport falls away, and how to find your way back to yourself when life has left absolutely nothing in the tank. As one listener reminded us, sometimes the most powerful healthy habit you can build isn\'t for your kids at all. It\'s finally getting the support you need for yourself. This episode is supported by @GuidingGrowingMinds You can support this podcast by subscribing to the @popcultureparenting YouTube channel, and sharing this episode with anyone you think it can help. Let\'s continue to grow the Pop Culture Parenting community together. JOIN OUR POP CULTURE PARENTING COMMUNITY Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/popcultureparenting TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@popcultureparenting Patreon: @popcultureparenting LISTEN TO THE PODCAST Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/pop-culture-parenting/id1600660063 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3vvbFk8QupQe06UQOwgHj0 Audible: https://www.audible.com.au/podcast/Pop-Culture-Parenting/B08JL52VYK --------------- GUIDING GROWING MINDS Pop Culture Parenting is proudly brought to you by Guiding Growing Minds, a social enterprise that aims to give all children the best opportunity to reach their potential and succeed in living rich and meaningful lives. Learn More: https://www.guidinggrowingminds.com/ --------------- DR. BILLY GARVEY\'S BOOK Ten Things I Wish You Knew About Your Child\'s Mental Health by Dr. Billy Garvey is on bookshelves now: https://www.penguin.com.au/books/ten-things-i-wish-you-knew-about-your-childs-mental-health-9781761345838 Regardless of whether you have a young child or a teen on the brink of adulthood, by understanding the foundations of good mental health, you will be able to help them to thrive at any stage in their development.

Healthy habits. We all want them for our kids and for ourselves, but as Whiplash reminds us, the pursuit of improvement can sometimes drift into pressure, perfectionism and burnout. In this episode we explore what the science of habit formation actually tells us about lasting change, including why healthy habits are built more by our environments than our willpower, why people with strong self-control tend to rely on habits rather than discipline, and how simple changes to our homes and routines can make healthy choices easier for the whole family. We discuss the connection between habits and mental health, why rewards, reminders and good intentions often fail to create lasting change, and how major life transitions can provide unique opportunities to build new family patterns. Along the way we reflect on what Whiplash can teach us about dedication, identity, excellence and the difference between pursuing growth and sacrificing wellbeing. We hope you enjoy this episode and we can\'t wait to read your reflections, questions and advice about the healthy habits that have helped the kids you love and care for thrive. Special thanks to @GuidingGrowingMinds for supporting this episode. You can support this podcast by subscribing to the @popcultureparenting YouTube channel, and sharing this episode with anyone you think it can help. Let\'s continue to grow the Pop Culture Parenting community together. JOIN OUR POP CULTURE PARENTING COMMUNITY Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/popcultureparenting TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@popcultureparenting Patreon: @popcultureparenting LISTEN TO THE PODCAST Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/pop-culture-parenting/id1600660063 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3vvbFk8QupQe06UQOwgHj0 Audible: https://www.audible.com.au/podcast/Pop-Culture-Parenting/B08JL52VYK --------------- GUIDING GROWING MINDS Pop Culture Parenting is proudly brought to you by Guiding Growing Minds, a social enterprise that aims to give all children the best opportunity to reach their potential and succeed in living rich and meaningful lives. Learn More: https://www.guidinggrowingminds.com/ --------------- DR. BILLY GARVEY\'S BOOK Ten Things I Wish You Knew About Your Child\'s Mental Health by Dr. Billy Garvey is on bookshelves now: https://www.penguin.com.au/books/ten-things-i-wish-you-knew-about-your-childs-mental-health-9781761345838 Regardless of whether you have a young child or a teen on the brink of adulthood, by understanding the foundations of good mental health, you will be able to help them to thrive at any stage in their development.

What an episode. We asked the PCP community and they delivered some of the most beautiful reflections and advice about the arrival of a baby. We answer question about feeling ready, repairing bonds, jealousy and the foundations of connection. We hear practical advice and phenomenal reflections from people who have overcome challenges that no one should have to. Thank you to everyone who shared their story. You guide us through the dark. This episode is supported by the Queensland Children\'s Hospital Foundation for supporting our work and everything you do for children. You can support this podcast by subscribing to the @popcultureparenting YouTube channel, and sharing this episode with anyone you think it can help. Let\'s continue to grow the Pop Culture Parenting community together. JOIN OUR POP CULTURE PARENTING COMMUNITY Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/popcultureparenting TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@popcultureparenting Patreon: @popcultureparenting LISTEN TO THE PODCAST Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/pop-culture-parenting/id1600660063 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3vvbFk8QupQe06UQOwgHj0 Audible: https://www.audible.com.au/podcast/Pop-Culture-Parenting/B08JL52VYK --------------- GUIDING GROWING MINDS Pop Culture Parenting is proudly brought to you by Guiding Growing Minds, a social enterprise that aims to give all children the best opportunity to reach their potential and succeed in living rich and meaningful lives. Learn More: https://www.guidinggrowingminds.com/ --------------- DR. BILLY GARVEY\'S BOOK Ten Things I Wish You Knew About Your Child\'s Mental Health by Dr. Billy Garvey is on bookshelves now: https://www.penguin.com.au/books/ten-things-i-wish-you-knew-about-your-childs-mental-health-9781761345838 Regardless of whether you have a young child or a teen on the brink of adulthood, by understanding the foundations of good mental health, you will be able to help them to thrive at any stage in their development.