Rena Malik, MD Podcast

Think You Need a Bigger Sex Toy? What People Actually Enjoy May Surprise You

Rena Malik, MD Podcast

Show Notes

In this episode, Dr. Rena Malik is joined by certified sex educator Amy Baldwin to explore the realities of sexual shame, the journey to authentic pleasure, and how to choose the right sex toys and lubricants for your body. The conversation also dives into practical strategies for working with shame, the benefits of somatic coaching, and why embracing playfulness in sex leads to more satisfying relationships. Listeners will come away with evidence-based tools and empowering stories to enhance their sexual well-being and embrace intimacy without fear or embarrassment.

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▶️Chapters:

00:00:00 Introduction00:01:43 How Shameless Sex Started00:04:36 Working Through Sexual Shame00:16:06 Opening a Sex Shop With Her Mom00:22:31 How to Choose a Sex Toy00:31:43 Cock Rings and Partner Play00:43:02 Choosing the Right Lubricant00:48:52 Sex Furniture and Realistic Use00:50:30 Somatic Coaching and Sexual Confidence01:01:48 Fetishes, Play, and Sexual Possibility01:12:49 Final Reflections and Life Lessons

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