Show Notes
You've done the reassurance-seeking. The avoidance. The positive affirmations in the mirror. And your anxiety is still there.
That's because most of the tools we're handed for anxiety are built on the same broken assumption: that anxiety is a threat to get rid of.
And every time you try to get rid of it, you teach your nervous system it was right to be afraid in the first place.
In this episode, I walk through six of the most common coping mechanisms people use to feel better and explain why each one can quietly reinforce the fear of fear loop instead of breaking it.
You'll learn: Why social media support groups often create more fear than connection What reassurance seeking is actually telling your nervous system Why avoidance (even the small, sneaky kind) confirms anxiety is dangerous Why positive thinking can backfire when the gap between what you feel and what you're saying is too big What "problem-focused" therapy misses if it never asks why the anxiety started
The goal isn't another tool to manage anxiety. It's understanding why it's stuck in the first place.
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