5. Creating Soulful Intimacy with Serdar Hararovich || Being seen, known & loved in our wholeness
Holy Luscious Woman™Show Notes
We talk about:
✨ Conscious communication
✨ Why ‘if it's not a f*ck yes, it's a f*ck no’ can be dangerous dating advice
✨ What creates emotional safety in a relationship and what erodes it
✨ The importance of men exploring their own vulnerability
✨ Navigating conflict
✨ The distortions of polarity
✨ Immediate gratification vs. the fulfillment of slow dating
✨ Attachment theory
✨ Serdar’s relationship journey
Serdar is an Authentic Intimacy guide who supports people to experience more nourishing, easeful & secure relationships with aligned partners. His speciality is in helping men & women cultivate deeper trust with each other, communicate with clarity, express clear boundaries, and co-create emotional safety - both for one's self, as well as one's partner. This is what creates the conditions not just for any kind of relationship, but for deeply soulful intimacy. He works with both individuals and couples. With individuals, the process often starts with healing our relationship to our own authentic Self - and discovering the places where we have forgotten or silenced our deeper truth.
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Tamar Raphael is a sacred sexuality coach, tantric bodyworker, ceremonialist & artist devoted to awakening through the body and guiding others into a deeper connection with self, spirit & the world around us.
She offers tantric mentorship to men & women, supporting them to come into deeper alignment & embodiment through spiritual practice, healing ceremony, rebirthing breathwork & bodywork. She works in private sessions & VIP retreats online and internationally.
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TIME STAMPS
Introducing Serdar (01:00)
Unpacking the f*ck yes myth (04:24)
The role of the inner child in healing relationship wounding (10:15)
The spectrum of attachment styles (16:28)
Attachment theory explained (18:26)
How we give away our power through blame (26:16)
Anything is possible in a relationship between two collaborators (29:44)
Conscious communication is worth its weight in gold (31:07)
Why emotional safety is particularly important for men and how polarity teachings can fail us here (36:00)
Inner union: Embodying our wholeness (39:52)
How I've changed the way I handle conflict (47:55)
Serdar’s personal story behind his passion for this work (53:46)
Why we should sometimes deviate from our ‘type” (01:02:46)
Serdar’s advice for online dating (01:06:24)
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