Build Your Brave Career for Women in Tech

“What Do I Really Want?” How I Redefined Success to Build My Brave Career E161

Build Your Brave Career for Women in Tech

Show Notes

"Your resistance could be your worst enemy, but it could also be your friend. Where you feel the resistance is where you can answer: what do I really want?" — Nicole Trick Steinbach

I share my career transformation story, using my Build Your Brave Framework, to answer the question, “What do I really want?” I walk you through how I redefined success and the struggle I faced in finding clarity, taking action that was based on my actual desires, and making a brave career decision that balanced what I wanted and what I needed.

Listen in for the pivotal moments and conversations that helped me get more specific as I dove into the resistance and fear I encountered along the way. I detail the importance of seeking support, clarifying career phases, and defining success unique to you as a human.

I draw parallels with the experience of my client, Rebecca Walter, and underscore the significance of normalizing the bravery of clarity and accountability in one's career journey. Related Episodes: Unlocking the Build Your Brave Framework for Career Transformation: An Example and Guide to Stress Less, Work Less, and Earn More - E149 Hot topics from this episode: Answering the question "What do you really want?" Redefining Success and Career Goals to Build Your Brave Career Changing definitions of success and career journeys, including career phases Recognizing the need for professional support and guidance in the career redefinition process, including mentors, coaches, advisors, and role models in navigating career changes Embracing resistance as a sign of growth and self-discovery to become a catalyst for personal growth and clarity For more information on how you can build your brave career, reach out to me Check out my website Join my mailing list for more insights, opportunities, and inspiration Connection with me on LinkedIn

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