Raising Them Right-ish

Why Kids “Misbehave” and What They Might Actually Be Telling Us

Raising Them Right-ish

Show Notes

Why does your child melt down over something that seems completely insignificant? And why do kids sometimes seem to “misbehave” when they know the rules? In the first official episode of Raising Them Right-ish, Nichole explores one of the most important lessons she has learned from 25 years of working with children: Behaviour is communication. We’ll talk about what might be happening underneath challenging behaviour, why developmental expectations matter, and how we can understand a child’s feelings while still holding boundaries. Because understanding the behaviour doesn’t mean excusing it—it means getting curious about what the child might be trying to tell us. Kids deserve understanding. Adults deserve understanding too. You don’t have to get it right. Right-ish will do.

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