Matrescence at work | Motherhood and Career Transition

#3 Liz speaks on weathering the storm of Motherhood

Matrescence at work | Motherhood and Career Transition

Show Notes

In this conversation, Liz and Deborah explore the concept of matrescence, the transition from womanhood to motherhood. They discuss personal experiences, challenges faced during motherhood, the importance of self-regulation, and the impact of professional backgrounds on parenting. The conversation also touches on work-life balance, building a support system, and navigating friendships in parenthood, culminating in reflections and advice for new parents.

We talk about how;

Matrescence is a significant transition for women. Motherhood involves unexpected challenges and changes. Self-regulation is crucial for both parents and children. Planning for parenthood often doesn't go as expected. Support systems are essential for navigating parenthood. Friendships can change after becoming a parent. Professional backgrounds can influence parenting styles. It's important to acknowledge the emotional responses of children. Parenting ideals often clash with reality. Learning to adapt is key in the parenting journey.

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