Show Notes
There’s a lot we don’t say out loud about how families are formed, especially when the journey looks different from the norm. Questions, assumptions, and quiet fears can linger long after decisions are made.
We’re so lucky to have the wonderful Becky Kearns (Defining Mum) back with us to continue this conversation. She reflects on honesty, connection, and the ongoing process of navigating other people’s expectations while staying grounded in your own truth. This episode holds space for nuance. For love that isn’t biological, for confidence that grows over time, and for the power of sharing real stories in a world full of myths and misinformation.
Whether donor conception is part of your life, your future, or simply something you want to better understand, this episode invites you to listen with curiosity and compassion.
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