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Have you ever left a doctor's appointment feeling unheard, dismissed, or told that your symptoms were "just stress," "just aging," or "all in your head"? Unfortunately, many women have. In this episode, Jacquie sits down with Kristen Parker to discuss what happened when she knew something was wrong, but struggled to get the answers and care she needed. Kristen's story shines a light on a reality many women face: having symptoms minimized, concerns overlooked, and being forced to advocate for themselves within the healthcare system. Together we discuss: • Why women are often dismissed when reporting symptoms • The impact of medical gaslighting and healthcare bias • How to advocate for yourself when you know something isn't right • The importance of second opinions and asking better questions • What persistence can achieve when your health is on the line • Practical lessons every woman should know before her next medical appointment This is not just Kristen's story. It is a conversation about self advocacy, trusting your instincts, and navigating a healthcare system that does not always listen the first time. If you've ever been told you're overreacting, imagining things, or "just getting older," this episode will feel familiar.
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