Show Notes
Gareth always paired smoking with a good time: being out with friends and enjoying a drink. He did not see himself as a typical smoker or as someone who was addicted, but he realized something was amiss when he could never make it through a weekend without smoking. Because the habit was so closely entwined with his social life and drinking, Gareth unsuccessfully attempted to quit many times. That changed when he tried a different approach that provided the exact incentive he needed to stay on track.
About Gareth: Gareth King is a Melbourne, Australia-based Creative Director in the world of marketing, always seeking new ideas, experiences, learnings and stories from anywhere. He is also a (so far successfully) ex-smoker of over 8 years, and host of the podcast Ruined By The Internet?, focused on exploring the technology shaping society, culture and modern life, to find the true casualties of the web - and those we're just looking at wrong.
✨You can find Gareth at: www.ruinedbytheinternet.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/gareth-king-09497225/
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