Your PENIS: size, sensitivity and secrets of a Femdom
The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power DynamicsShow Notes
Question: How much do YOU think about your penis? Ms Erika realized we haven’t done an episode ON da dick – oh sure, we talk a lot about what we (and you) DO with a penis but not the organ itself. So, today’s episode is all about your cock.
DOES PENIS SIZE REALLY MATTER? Hear the Femdom answer to questions about penis size. Our comments might surprise you.
Other questions we answer include: Will she like my cock? Am I big enough for her? Will I last long enough to please a woman? Am I a disappointment in bed?
Since we do have a lot of experiences with all sorts of cocks, we talk about ways to increase or decrease penis sensitivity and how we use these techniques in Distance Domination.
Some chastity pets love the idea of permanent chastity. Is that a real thing? We’ll answer that question and several questions from sissy subs who want to know about clitty shrinkage from extreme chastity training.
Whether you have big dick energy, a more modest offering, or a cute little clitty tucked away, this episode is your masterclass in pensis 101.
DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia
[email protected] Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
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