Career Confidence with Fexingo: Imposter Syndrome, Self-Promotion, and Owning Your Worth

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Career Confidence with Fexingo: Imposter Syndrome, Self-Promotion, and Owning Your Worth

Show Notes

We are looking at the specific mechanics of how modern hiring algorithms and human bias intersect to penalize high-performing candidates who don't know how to translate their internal impact into external signals. Using the example of a senior product manager who lost a forty thousand dollar opportunity because she under-communicated her cross-functional influence, we explore why 'quiet competence' is no longer a sustainable career strategy in a market that rewards visibility as much as output. This episode breaks down the exact three-step framework for documenting wins without sounding arrogant, helping you own your worth before the interview even starts.

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