73: Be More Selfish (as a spiritual practice) With Guests Britt Hartley and Corrie Woods
Your Turned on DesireShow Notes
Are spirituality and sexuality connected? Is spirituality different for women than men? Has religion done a disservice to women when it comes to their overall wellbeing and their sex lives? We discuss these questions and more in this episode with Jamee and her guests Britt Hartley and Corrie Woods.
Connect with Britt Hartley:
Nononsensespirituality.com
Britt’s YouTube channel No Nonsense Spirituality | Britt Hartley - YouTube
Corrie Woods:
https://www.facebook.com/share/1R484GmeTF/?mibextid=LQQJ4d
Details about private coaching with me: Private Program | Your Turned on Desire
https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire
Sexual Success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed). Private calls with me are also included in this offer:
https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands
Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”:
https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807
I tried everything to change my sex life for the better. And it wasn’t when I was on a fancy vacation in Hawaii where I decided all the things I was trying weren’t going to work because my husband and I had been lied to and we needed to address these lies before things would change for the better for us. Read about that story here:
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When one starts confronting their sexual relationship, it’s common to start deconstructing and evolving their beliefs around a lot of other things too. Because spirituality and sexuality are deeply connected, when we deal with the challenges in our sexual relationships, the theology we were brought up in is usually poked at and oftentimes unravels as well. This is very normal and I’m happy to share this conversation I had with David Hayward (also known as the Naked Pastor) where we navigate the unraveling many of us go through concerning religion and sexuality. His art has been so helpful for me as I reflect on different areas of my life.
Emotional Connection has always been the foundation to a good intimate life. So why do some of us lose this awareness and start the game of tennis where we go back and forth between sex first or emotional connection first?
You saying “No” to sex is not the problem. His responses to your “no” are the problem.
It’s time we put an end to the idea that men need sexual connection before they can connect emotionally and start prioritizing emotional connection first always. Why? Because it’s what women are saying they need before they happily have sex with their husbands and we need to listen to them.