
Show Notes
In this episode of the Franklin Planner Podcast, hosts George Wright III and John Harding welcome special guest Ben Kjar. Ben, an American wrestler, international speaker, real estate investor, and motivational figure, shares his remarkable life story of overcoming Crouzon syndrome to become a NCAA Division One Wrestling All American and a world champion wrestler. Ben discusses the principles and daily rituals that have guided his success, emphasizing the importance of setting clear goals, involving supportive people, and maintaining a rigorous daily routine. The conversation also delves into Ben's upcoming movie 'Standout', which documents his journey and aims to inspire others to realize their potential and overcome obstacles. The film, releasing on January 23rd, aims to reach a wide audience to spread its powerful message. Ben's story and advice offer valuable insights for anyone looking to lead a successful and fulfilling life.
00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:44 Ben Kjar's Early Life and Challenges 01:44 Overcoming Obstacles and Achieving Success 04:52 The Power of Setting Goals 07:31 Support Systems and Accountability 18:40 Daily Rituals for Success 19:31 Morning Routine and Workout Priorities 21:07 The Crown Code: A Way of Living 22:23 Principles and Goals: A Personal Story 24:01 Overcoming Adversity: Wrestling Journey 30:59 The Impact of the Movie 'Stand Out'
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About Guest: Ben Kjar Ben Kjar was born with Crouzons syndrome (a craniofacial anomaly), and as a young boy the doctors told him that he would live a different life.....and that’s exactly what he’s done! He has risen above any of life’s challenges and become a Victor not a victim. Ben is Utah Valley University’s first-ever NCAA Division 1 Wrestling All-American and has represented the USA team internationally. Ben is an international professional speaker and has told his story to millions around the globe, in front of crowds of up to 10,000 people!
Guest Resources: Website: https://www.benkjar.com/ Instagram: @benkjar Facebook: Ben Kjar X (formerly Twitter): @benkjar LinkedIn: Ben Kjar Film Website: https://standoutfilm.com/
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