Asian in Aotearoa

36. Maggie Shui 水元瑞 and Dating While Asian

Asian in Aotearoa

Show Notes

Maggie is a Chinese-New Zealander, a multimedia journalist at Re: News, a documentary maker and an aspiring lady of leisure. Here, we talk about the new series that Maggie directed called Dating While Asian and her own dating experiences. What also comes up is some stuff around being fetishised, pleasure or lack thereof for women in straight partnerships, breakups, burnout and more.

Watch Dating While Asian on YouTube HERE

Maggie on Re:News 👉 https://www.renews.co.nz/topics/profile/maggie-shui

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Hosted by Jenna Wee, Asian in Aotearoa (New Zealand) explores the lives of Asian creatives, one uncensored convo at a time. Questioning our concept of home, identity, family, relationships, sex, racism, body/beauty, healing, decolonisation - and how this shapes the way we move through the world and influences our creative work.

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