Tatayhood

#149 - 40 Na Ako — At Pakiramdam Ko, Sinayang Ko ang Buhay Ko

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Show Notes

May mga gabi bang bigla ka na lang mapapaisip — “Paano kung sinayang ko ‘yung mga taon ko?” In this raw and brutally honest episode, Tristan opens up about hitting 40 and realizing life didn’t turn out the way he hoped. Together with Ingo, they peel back the layers of regret, failed relationships, and the quiet battles men fight behind the façade of strength. From wasted youth to broken fatherhood, from chasing “vibes” to rebuilding purpose — this is a mirror every man eventually has to face. But in true Tatayhood fashion, the episode doesn’t end in despair. It’s a reminder that as long as you’re breathing, may laban pa.

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