The Don't Buy Her Flowers Podcast

Fatherhood and Goat’s Testicles with Matt Coyne

The Don't Buy Her Flowers Podcast

Show Notes

Matt Coyne, AKA Man Vs Baby, has made a career writing and talking about being a dad (after a stint as ‘the worst graphic designer in Yorkshire’ among other things), amassing a huge following across social media.

As a Stay at Home Dad, Matt shares his insight in to men being praised for showing up, with expectations on women so much tougher, and the narrative of dads as either wet or buffoons. Steph and Matt talk about Kate’s handling of Prince Louis at the Jubilee, what happens when your toddler wants to touch a goat’s testicles, and how the role of fatherhood is changing.

Steph also quizzes Matt on why men do strange things at the least appropriate time, sharing some brilliant stories of blokes jetwashing bins and changing electricity supplier when their partner was in labour.

This episode is sponsored by Kokoso Baby, creators of award-winning baby skincare products including an Organic Coconut Oil which we love and is available in Don’t Buy Her Flowers packages and is suitable for even the most sensitive skin.

Matt’s books Dummy, Man Versus Toddler and The Mum Who Lost Her Sh*t

Matt’s TedX talk ‘Be More Toddler’

The Likely Dads podcast

Matt’s Instagram and Twitter

Steph’s Instagram

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