Moving into 2026 with Roxy Romaniuk
Soles to Soul Care for Trauma and AuDHD with Eve Menezes CunninghamShow Notes
Happy New Year! And welcome to Season 3 of the Feel Better Every Day Podcast! As we move into 2026, am delighted to share my (Eve Menezes Cunningham, author, podcast host, columnist, trauma-informed and neuro-affirming therapist, Self care coach and senior accredited supervisor – https://selfcarecoaching.net has more information) interview with yoga teacher, Roxy Romaniuk. I adore her yoga classes and really loved our conversation and her honesty about moving through difficult feelings, emotions and situations by paying attention and moving them through her body with movement and journalling. I know yoga students and groups have often called me serene (and that I so often feel anything but!) AND while I don’t know how Roxy feels on the inside while she’s teaching, I do know that she wouldn’t embody such serenity as a yoga teacher if she wasn’t doing all this inner work. Nothing’s good or bad. Everything is simply information. But we all need support (compassion for ourselves as we face challenges, the courage to ask for help and support and community around us to offer it when we can’t ask). JOURNAL PROMPTS As you watch or listen to our interview, ask yourself: How might you make more space to process, reflect and work with ALL the feelings in 2026? How and where might you access support and that essential feeling of being held we all need in order to co-regulate and thrive? Maybe there’s a yoga class local to you where you feel able to exhale deeply and let go? Maybe a great friend or loved one you don’t have to mask around? A therapist or coach? Some other kind of relationship? Let me know in the comments or by email – [email protected] And if you’re feeling sad reading this because you can’t think of anything that supportive, let it be a cue to encourage you to be open to more of it in 2026 and beyond. THE SOLE TO SOUL CIRCLE IS EVOLVING Whereas before, the deeper dive exclusive content would go out on Wednesdays, this will now be an additional bonus for my Míle Buíochas Mondays newsletter subscribers (as well as the regular polyvagal-informed journal prompts and some of the things I’m most grateful for and delighted to share with you). If you’re not already a subscriber, you can sign up for free at https://feelbettereveryday.kit.com/f7f730d651 And I’ll share more about the evolving Sole to Soul Circle soon. Happy New Year! Le grá (with love), Eve LINKS @yogawithroxy theyogaroot.org – check out their upcoming open weekend with free classes CHAPTERS (0:03) Difficulty expressing “negative” emotions (2:07) Introducing guest Roxolana Romaniuk (3:47) Ideal vs actual self-care through my Feel. Love. Heal. framework (6:00) Small daily rituals and intuitive movement (8:13) Expressing anger and difficult emotions safely (12:21) Community, belonging, and collective care FULL TRANSCRIPT Do you struggle to express yourself when you’re feeling really sad or angry or hurt or any of the so-called negative emotions? Today’s guest is an absolute delight and while she’s one of my favourite yoga teachers, I especially love what she shares about her own self-care in terms of giving space, making space for messy movement and expression. I hope you love listening to her as much as I enjoyed talking to her and I’d also love to hear from you in terms of maybe the emotion you struggle most to process and what you’re going to do differently, what you’re going to try as a result of today’s episode. Welcome to episode 92 of the Feel Better Every Day Podcast and I look forward to hearing from you. I’m your host and producer Eve Menezes Cunningham. I’m an author, columnist, trauma therapist, self-care coach and senior accredited supervisor specialising in ADHD and AuDHD friendly trauma-informed neuro-affirming and transpersonal and somatic approaches. I help people heal through self-care practices that honour your body and your brain and your nervous system as well as yourself, that highest, wisest, truest, wildest, most joyful, brilliant and mir
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