Your Questions Answered - What Should I Do?

Send us Fan Mail Starting something new? Whether it's a new job or career phase, becoming a parent, or taking on any new challenge, those first few months can bring a lot of pressure to get it right. In this episode, Patti & Mark share practical advice for getting off to a great start without falling into common traps like trying to do too much, having all the answers, or relying on what worked before. They discuss why it's important to learn before making changes, build relationships, ge...

Send us Fan Mail Asking for help can feel awkward—especially when you’re asking for advice, an introduction, or a favor. But a good ask can open doors and build valuable relationships. In this episode, Patti & Mark share what they’ve learned from being on both sides of the ask. They discuss who to approach, the difference between an advice giver and a connector, and why being clear about what you need makes it easier for others to help. They also share the small things that matter—from ma...

Send us Fan Mail We all get some bad career advice—but every once in a while, someone tells you something that really sticks. In this episode, Patti & Mark share some of the best career advice they’ve received—and why they still rely on it today. From “just because you can solve a problem doesn’t mean you should,” to “be brief, be concise, and be gone,” to “your work can’t speak for itself,” - we’ve learned that sometimes the simplest advice can completely change how we approach our work....

Send us Fan Mail You know what you need to do... so why aren't you doing it? And why does putting it off feel so good—until it doesn't? In this episode of Aren't Ya Tired Of...?, Patti and Mark take a fresh look at procrastination. Instead of getting down on yourself for lacking discipline, they explore what procrastination is trying to tell you. Is it fear of failure? Perfectionism? Uncertainty? Or simply avoiding something uncomfortable? They also share practical ideas that work—from taking...

Send us Fan Mail “We need to talk.” Nobody likes hearing those words—but being the one who has to say them can be even harder. In this episode, Patti & Mark share practical ways to give honest, useful feedback to coworkers, team members, or friends without avoiding the conversation, watering down your message, or being too harsh. Being honest with someone shows respect—that you care about their growth, development, or the relationship. Learn how to get clear on your intent and what you re...