Emotionally Online

"competing" with their ex and being the one who cares more – ep. 161

Emotionally Online

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i'm about to leave for CROATIA on this years lover girls trip but first! let's debrief the conclusion of the summer house reunion before jumping into some audience submissions about being a girl who cares a lot, "competing" with your current partners ex, expanding our perspective on our capacities for love, and some reflections on fostering and saying goodbye. love u to bits!

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TIME STAMPS: 00:00 – period talk 03:49 – orgasms and cramps 06:06 – final summer house reunion thoughts 21:22 – being the one who cares more 34:16 – "competing" with their ex 41:07 – fostering advice and how to say goodbye

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