Show Notes
What happens when you choose a normal birth with twins? In this episode, I speak with Nicole, a mother from South Africa now living in the U.S., who chose sovereignty in one of the most medicalized and “high-risk” experiences imaginable: an identical twin pregnancy. From the very beginning, she was met with fear-based narratives—warnings of stillbirth, premature labor, and twin-to-twin transfusion syndrome. But after enduring traumatic experiences in hospitals and with midwives, Nicole knew she would not birth her twins within the system.
Instead, she underwent a profound process of deconditioning and committed to trusting her body. With the steady support of her husband, a Radical Birth Keeper graduate, and a community of women walking this same path, Nicole carried her twins to 40 weeks and welcomed them at home, in embodied sovereignty.
Nicole shares the raw reality of holding responsibility for twins outside the system: the constant conversations about risk, the deep conviction it took to turn away completely, and the profound freedom of reclaiming birth on her own terms.
Inside this episode:
What Nicole witnessed in the hospital that made her vow never to return How she carried her twins to full term, trusting her body’s wisdom The support she found in a community of sovereign mothers What labor with twins looked like at home The double standard of blame when outcomes differ at home versus in the hospital The freedom and healing that come with birthing twins in sovereignty
Timestamps:
[00:00] Introduction [02:59] Two miscarriages and lack of support and answers from the medical system [07:05] Receiving news of a third unviable pregnancy and deciding not to take the pill [09:02] Discovering that the medical system was wrong about her third pregnancy, and that her baby was alive and healthy in her womb [11:19] Birthing her first son in a birthing center with a midwife, forced interventions, a fourth degree tear, and newborn separation [21:36] Postpartum hospital trauma, overreactions and threats [25:15] Another miscarriage and humiliating hospital treatment [32:13] Finding out she was pregnant with twins, midwife refusing to provide care, and choosing freebirth [1:00:00] Freebirthing her twins at home with her husband and birth attendant present
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