Don't Let The Old Man In

4 Actions To Rekindle Your Love Life In Midlife

Don't Let The Old Man In

Show Notes

This week, we got to sit down with relationship expert and intimacy coach Tanya Koens to dive deep into the biggest issues facing couples as they enter midlife, and how we can work with our partners to get the most satisfaction out of our love lives. Tanya has years of experience and provided several fascinating insights from her career, many of which have really stuck with us ever since.

In this special Actions episode of Don't Let the Old Man In, we're looking back at our conversation with Tanya to identify the most powerful pieces of wisdom she shared with us, how you can implement it in your own life, and why the science says it works.

Listen to our conversation with Tanya Koens: https://linktr.ee/dontllettheoldmanin

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