Self Obsessed

watch this when you want to give up

Self Obsessed

Show Notes

watch this when you want to give up and need a reminder that this difficult season of your life is not where your story ends. in this episode, we’re talking about feeling stuck, unmotivated, behind, or like nothing is working even though you’re trying your best. this is for the girl in a slump or in the messy middle who wants to keep going, trust her journey, and stay committed to becoming the woman she knows she can be. if you’ve been feeling discouraged, let this be the video you return to when you need perspective, comfort, and a push to keep going.

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction 01:06 Closest to Change 03:15 The Messy Middle 04:24 Brain vs Comfort 05:23 Hindsight is Clarity 06:22 Future You Begs to Not Give Up 07:29 Nothing Is Permanent 09:00 Outgrowing Yourself 09:33 You Are Doing Better Than You Think 10:55 Baby Steps Only 12:05 Future Self Thanks You 14:50 Final Reminders

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