The Divorce Podcast

Values in divorce: a coach's guide to staying true to yourself

The Divorce Podcast

Show Notes

Your values shape every relationship you have - so what happens to them during a separation? Kate is joined by Katie Lancaster, an executive and leadership coach, to explore why holding onto your values during divorce can change everything about how you come out the other side. If you're trying to get through a divorce or separation in a kinder, calmer way, this conversation is full of practical tips to help you stay grounded. We talk about: How to stay true to yourself in tough divorce negot...

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