Show Notes
Back by popular demand, my Biz Dom, Brenda joins me in this episode to talk about what the past year has actually looked like for me. We get into what it means to rebuild your life more than once, and what it’s like being in a 24/7 Dom sub dynamic that feels aligned and expansive while still navigating very real emotions like grief, uncertainty, and starting over. Brenda came prepared with questions that pushed me to slow down, reflect, and actually look at what this season of my life is asking from me.
We also get into business, censorship, and what it looks like to be a sex educator online right now when platforms are actively shutting down conversations around safety, pleasure, and education. We talk about the importance of community, why long-form platforms matter more than ever, and how to stay connected in a space that is constantly shifting. If you’ve been going through a big life transition, questioning your path, or just trying to figure out how to hold both excitement and discomfort at the same time, this episode is going to feel very real, very human, and maybe a little bit like the permission slip you didn’t know you needed.
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Episode Highlights: (00:00) Long Distance, Big Decisions, and Moving for Love (08:30) Rebuilding Life in a New City and Starting Over Again (13:10) Finding Small Joys While Navigating Major Life Changes (16:01) Travel, Independence, and Relationship Expectations (27:07) Sex Education, Censorship, and Why Platforms Are Failing Creators
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