How to Reach Out to People After Redundancy (And Actually Get Replies)
Now What? - Life after redundancyShow Notes
thenowwhat.co.uk Redundancy does an odd little trick. It doesn’t just take away a job, it takes away the easy, everyday connection that came with it. No Teams pings, no corridor chats, no accidental “oh you should speak to…” moments. And when that background noise disappears, reaching out to people can suddenly feel weirdly high stakes.
In this episode, I talk through how to reach out to people after redundancy in a way that feels genuine, not salesy - and how to give yourself the best chance of actually getting replies. We’ll cover how to spot shared goals and shared values so your messages feel relevant, a simple structure for what to say (without sounding like a corporate chatbot), and how to follow up without turning into your own debt collector.
This isn’t about becoming a “networking person”. It’s about small, intentional connections that bring clarity, confidence, and momentum back into your week.
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