Show Notes
This week I'm sharing something I've been working on for years: The Intimate Self. It started as an online course I wrote and never released, and I've since pulled it apart and rebuilt it as a body of work, a series of articles you can read in any order, with no coursework or homework required. I talk about why I didn't want to call it "empowerment," why it isn't about tips and tricks, and why I'm writing the thing I wish I'd had as a young adult. It'something grounded, spiritual, and body-centered, focusing on helping you become someone who can figure out intimacy for yourself. Part 1 is complete and available for you to access. Key Themes:
How The Intimate Self began as an unfinished online course and became a body of work Why knowing your intimate self is different from learning sex tips and tricks Creating the resource I wish I'd had when I was first becoming an adult Using intimacy and sexuality as a pathway to personal growth and becoming your best self Building the communication, honesty, and vulnerability that make intimacy strong Two ways to access the work: paid Substack or a one-time purchase on my website
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