Cum take the Purity Test challenge with your Favorite Femdoms
The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power DynamicsShow Notes
How ‘pure’ are you? That’s today’s topic as Ms Olivia and Ms Erika talk about the Rice Purity Test. This is a lighthearted look at the concept of being sexually pure.
Test questions start in a delicate manner with things like kissing, dancing, grinding while clothed and then move to the hot stuff. The “less pure” questions involve oral, anal, orgies and even being arrested! The cop questions inspire an erotic story from Olivia.
We also give YOU a challenge. We want you to take the Rice Purity Test and send us your score. Apparently the average score is 59%. Are you more pure or less pure than that?
The second part of your assignment is to take the test 2 more times. Pretend you are me or Ms Erika and score the test how you think we would answer. Send us all three numbers.
Rice Purity Test
DISCORD: LDWErika and LDWOlivia
[email protected] Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
[email protected] Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
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