Unfollowing Mum

EP43 TW Normalised sexual abuse & life after

Unfollowing Mum

Show Notes

On this episode, host Harriet Shearsmith speaks to an anoymous guest about her experiences with sexual abuse growing up and how life looks after healing work. You can find Harriet at @tobyandroo or @unfollowing_mum on tiktok and instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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