Real Women's Stories with Lisa Quait

How To Stop Overthinking What People Think Of You

Real Women's Stories with Lisa Quait

Show Notes

Do you constantly replay conversations in your head? Worry you said the wrong thing? Or feel like you’ve spent years trying not to be “too much”?

In this coaching episode, I’m unpacking how the labels we’re given as children and young adults can quietly shape the way we think, behave and show up in the world for years afterwards.

I share how being told I was “too outspoken” and had “a big mouth” slowly changed my confidence, my decisions and even the direction of my life - without me fully realising it at the time.

We explore: How people-pleasing and self-doubt are connected Why so many women stop recognising themselves A simple coaching framework to challenge negative thought patterns

This episode is designed to help you reflect on the thoughts, stories and identities you may still be carrying - and start reconnecting with who you really are underneath the overthinking.

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