Sex With Emily

How to Start Having Sex Again After a Long Break

Sex With Emily

Show Notes

Have a question you've always been too embarrassed to ask? Send it to me: sexwithemily.com/ask

Whether it's a body pattern you've never been able to break, a sex life that went quiet during a hard season, or a relationship where desire just doesn't match up — these are the questions people carry around for years without knowing where to take them. Let's talk about real listener questions on orgasm habits, how to restart intimacy after illness, navigating power dynamics in a relationship, and what to actually do when your partner seems completely uninterested in sex.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:

0:00 Real Sex Questions You Were Too Embarrassed to Ask

2:00 Q: I Can Only Orgasm One Way. Can I Change That?

3:47 How to Retrain Your Body for Full-Body Orgasms

6:23 The Breathwork Practice That Changes Everything

8:30 Q: How Do We Restart Our Sex Life After Six Months Off?

10:19 How to Ease Back In Without Pressure or Awkwardness

12:43 Q: I Want to Switch Roles But My Partner Won't

14:27 Top and Bottom Dynamics and Masculine Feminine Energy

17:05 How Age and Experience Shape Power in Relationships

19:17 Q: My Wife Just Wants It Over Quickly. What Do I Do?

21:00 When Culture and Shame Shut Down Desire

23:25 Sexual Health Is Overall Health. Here Is Why That Matters Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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