Show Notes
Have you ever found yourself trapped in the exhausting start-stop-repeat cycle? You know exactly what I mean, the classic diet-mentality conditioning where one bad day or a chaotic week makes you feel like you’ve completely failed, forcing you to wait until Monday to "start over." In this episode, I sit down with health and self-leadership coach Courtney Townley to completely dismantle this toxic cycle. We dive deep into why high-achievers constantly experience burnout and how to replace rigid, outsourced protocols with an internal framework built for real, messy, human lives. Health and wellness isn’t a rigid binary of being on or off the wagon. It is fundamentally an exercise in stress management. Courtney shares her incredible "Consistency Code" framework, teaching us how to move away from chaotic reactivity and step into radical self-leadership by insourcing our own authority, parenting our brains, and befriending our emotions.
Connect with Courtney Townley: Website: graceandgrit.com Get the Book: The Consistency Code by Courtney Townley graceandgrit.com/book/the-consistency-code Grab the Freebie: Want a taste of the book before committing? Download or listen to the first chapter for free at graceandgrit.com/programs/midlifemagic/
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