The Sex Reimagined Podcast

Darshana Avila: When Therapy Isn't Enough-What to Do When You've Done the Work & Still Feel Shut Down | #182

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Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! What If Pleasure Was Never the Problem, You Were Just Never Taught How to Receive It? Most of us learned about sex from silence, shame, or a five-minute health class that left out everything that actually matters. We learned to perform. To go along. To look at the clock. And somewhere in all that conditioning, we stopped trusting our own bodies. Darshana Avila has spent decades helping people find their way back.A trauma-infor...

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