Ask Mom Parenting with Sue Donnellan

Child Safety Tips: What Kids Need to Know About Secrets, Pressure, and Unsafe Adults

Ask Mom Parenting with Sue Donnellan

Show Notes

"Nice and safe aren't always the same thing." In this episode, I pull back the curtain on the realities of child safety, moving far beyond the outdated "stranger danger" speech. With the insight I gained from serving on a state grand jury for child sexual assault cases and what I've learned professionally about secrecy, grooming behaviors, and peer pressure, we're breaking down how you can empower your kids with practical, non-fear-based safety skills they can use for the rest of their lives. If you’ve ever asked yourself: How do I teach my child to recognize unsafe boundaries without making them overly fearful?

What should I say to my kids about sleepovers and monitoring who else is in the home?

How can I encourage my child to trust their gut instinct over being polite to adults?

…this one’s for you.

True protection comes from building an open, non-judgmental circle of trust at home so your children always feel supported to speak up. By layering these safety skills into everyday, low-stakes conversations, you transform fear into lifelong empowerment. Resources Watch the show on YouTube at ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@askmomparenting571 ⁠⁠ Join the Yell-free Parenting ⁠Facebook Group⁠: https://www.facebook.com/groups/yellfreeparentingforexhaustedmoms/ Read Sue's book, ⁠Secrets to Parenting Without Giving a F^ck: https://shorturl.at/lrcF2 Connect with Sue on Instagram at @AskMomParenting: Instagraminstagram.com/askmomparenting

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