Show Notes
There's an old Greek storytelling trick called Deus ex machina—"God from the machine." When the playwright wrote his characters into a corner he couldn't get them out of, he'd just lower a god onto the stage on a crane, and boom—everything's fixed. Aristotle called it lazy writing. But here's the thing: the Bible is full of Deus ex machina moments. Not because God is a bad writer—but because we tend to write ourselves into corners we can't get out of. That's exactly what was happening on the road to Emmaus. A couple (a lot of theologians think it was a married couple—Cleopas and his wife Mary) is walking home, devastated. They'd given up time, income, maybe everything, to follow Jesus. And now He was dead. Game over. They're walking home feeling like fools, talking and talking, their problem-solving brains spinning in circles. And right in the middle of that mess, the solution drops down and starts walking with them! The first people Jesus appeared to in the Gospel of Luke after the Resurrection weren't the apostles or the official leadership. It was a husband and wife in their lowest moment, unsure what to do with their lives. He loves you in that moment. Look, your brain is a beautiful problem-solving supercomputer. God gave it to you, so use it. But sometimes the most practical thing you can do in a crisis is stop trying to figure it out, get on your knees, and pray: Lord, I want the mind of Christ. Give me Your eyes to see this. Come, Lord Jesus. David slew Goliath with a sling and five smooth stones. Sometimes the biggest problems get knocked out by the simplest of solutions. Whatever you're carrying—invite Him in. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS1. When you face a problem or crisis, what's your default move—do you tend to think your way out of it, or do you bring it to the Lord first? Why? 2. The disciples on the road to Emmaus said, "We had hoped he was the one"—past tense. Have you ever experienced a moment when your hope in God felt like past tense? What did that feel like? 3. Chris suggests that Jesus often appears in our "low moments" rather than our high ones. Where in your life right now might Jesus be walking beside you that you haven't recognized yet? 4. The couple invited Jesus into their home. What would it look like, practically, to invite Jesus deeper into your home this week—your conversations, your routines, your relationships? 5. Is there a specific situation in your life where you need to stop trying to figure it out and pray instead? What's one concrete way you can "invite Him in" this week (e.g., a Rosary, a holy hour, prayer with your spouse)? -----Watch the episode on Divine Mercy with Fr. Chris Alar: https://youtu.be/81-skhKl0-w-----Sign up for the Daily Anchor for free daily reflections from Chris Stefanick in your inbox:https://bit.ly/4tQCXtP-----Join the mission to spread the joy of the Gospel! Become a Missionary of Joy to support this free content: https://bit.ly/4nTHbN0-----Join Chris Stefanick on pilgrimage: https://www.reallifecatholic.com/pilgrimages
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