#50 Cuckolding 101: How To Explore It & Why It Can Be Good For Your Relationship With Venus Cuckoldress
The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage AdviceShow Notes
Cuckolding is a controversial sexual practice that is totally misunderstood but it can actually be a really great addition to the right kind of relationship! Today on the podcast we are joined by cuckolding expert, Venus Cuckoldress to debunk cuckolding myths, hear about the realities of it, and get some tips for incorporating it into our own relationships. In this episode, you will hear all about how Venus was introduced to cuckolding, starting her cuckolding blog and podcast, the reality of cuckolding in a healthy relationship, how cucking can bring you closer to your partner, why it is a male-driven fantasy, and so much more! Venus then shares some advice and steps for anyone wanting to try cuckolding before explaining the challenges of finding a bull (third partner) and safety recommendations. We even discuss cuckqueaning, hotwifing, fantasies that don't involve sexual intercourse, whether or not size matters, sexual denial, and the 'vanilla' sex life of a cuckolding couple. Finally, Venus tells us why cuckolding is a bad idea if you think it will "fix" your relationship. This episode is filled with some amazing insights into the wonders of cuckolding so be sure to tune in now!
Key Points From This Episode:
• How Venus discovered cuckolding. • Why she started a blog and podcast about cuckolding. • What cuckolding is in reality for people in healthy relationships. • Her first experience of 'cucking' her partner and how it deepened their connection. • Why cuckolding is not cheating and why men may enjoy being cuckolded by their partner. • What compersion is and how it ties into cuckolding. • Venus shares advice for any couples wanting to try cuckolding and the steps to starting. • The challenges of finding a third partner (a bull) for a cuckolding relationship. • Venus gives us some safety recommendations when trying out cuckolding. • Why creating too many rules that become hard to follow is problematic. • Cuckolding versus cuckqueaning and what hotwifing is. • How to fulfill your partner's cuckolding fantasies without actually sleeping with another man. • The impact of making a comment about size during a cuckolding experience. • Venus tells us what her size preference is when it comes to sex. • Sexual denial in cuckolding and how most cuckold couples have a robust sex life together. • Why cuckolding is a recipe for disaster in a relationship already littered with problems.
Quotes:
"[Cuckolding] is not so much about just your partner watching you or listening [to] you sleeping with somebody else because that's what everybody thinks it is. It's actually really a kind of special loving relationship." [0:05:20]
"[Cuckolding] is like art, you can sculpt it exactly the way that you want, and it does not need to look like somebody else's piece of art." [0:11:54]
"The fun part about being the woman in a cuckolding situation is that you really do feel like you have the power and the ability to have this effect on someone that is profound." [0:20:25]
Longer Quotes:
"If there are any new couples listening out there thinking of making this list of rules, it's okay to have them. But just keep in mind that it may not be realistic to have all of those rules. I think what's most important is that she's safe, and she's comfortable, and that she's enjoying herself. What that looks like should really be up to her." [0:20:04]
Links Mentioned in Today's Episode:
Venus — https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/ Venus Linktree — https://linktr.ee/venuscuckoldress The Venus Cuckoldress Podcast — https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/the-podcast Venus Connections — https://www.venusconnections.com/ Venus on X — https://twitter.com/CuckoldressV Venus on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/venuscuckoldresspodcast Dr. Justin Lehmiller — https://www.sexandpsychology.com/about-dr/ Tell Me What You Want — https://www.amazon.com/Tell-Me-What-You-Want/dp/0738234958/ref 'Does Size Matter?' Bad Girls Bible Survey — https:
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