The Hot Flush

S3Ep4: The Proust Hour

The Hot Flush

Summary

Kate Murphy and Kim Berry engage in a candid conversation reflecting on personal experiences and life goals, sparked by the Proust Questionnaire. Kim shares her responses from 1996, revealing insights into her past aspirations, fears, and defining characteristics. The discussion highlights themes of self-doubt, resilience, and the importance of humor in relationships.

As they delve into their answers, both women express gratitude for their current lives while acknowledging past struggles. They touch on the impact of societal expectations and personal choices, particularly regarding family dynamics and the complexities of adoption. The conversation emphasizes the significance of open dialogue about these topics, encouraging listeners to connect and share their own stories.

The episode concludes with a lighthearted exchange about their upcoming plans and reflections on personal growth, underscoring the importance of maintaining connections and supporting one another through life's challenges.

Show Notes

From your greatest fear, greatest love, lowest depths of misery and the trait we most deplore in ourselves, we answer the questions Marcel Proust (like roost, not roast. With a P. You’re welcome.) said revealed one’s true nature. Along the way: a wedding-morning confession kept quiet for 30 years, why we’d rather spend money on long dinners than a Birkin, the start of a Chris Kohler fan club, and why we’re coming back as a dugong and much-loved cat. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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