A Gay and A NonGay

When Self-Love Becomes Too Much

A Gay and A NonGay

Show Notes

James and Dan are back with another chaotic, hilarious episode of A Gay and A NonGay!

This week, Dan’s lost his phone — and apparently his sanity — leading to a deep dive into how impossible modern life is without one (and how long James can last without rolling his eyes).

From there, the pair spiral into a debate about narcissism — is it always a bad thing, or can a little self-love actually be healthy?

James insists it’s a green flag, Dan isn’t so sure, and somewhere between poppers, entitlement, and empathy, they try to work out what the line really is between confidence and arrogance.

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