Don't Call Me Catty

Wait… What If I’m the Toxic One? | Jen Cote, RVT

Don't Call Me Catty

Show Notes

What happens when you realize you might have been part of the problem? Jen Cote, RVT, joins Leilani and Jillian for a candid conversation about nearly 20 years in vet med. They discuss the lessons that came from changing roles, getting uncomfortable, learning how to communicate, and becoming the kind of leader she wishes she’d had earlier in her career. Jen’s career has taken her from general practice and emergency medicine to sales, operations, communications, program management, and industr...

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