Kingdom Sexuality

281: When He Finishes Too Fast: A Shame-Free Conversation

Kingdom Sexuality

Show Notes

Struggling to last as long as you'd like to? In this episode, Kyle walks us through practical techniques and emotional shifts that help sex feel more connected, enjoyable, and unhurried. If performance anxiety has been stealing your joy, this conversation is for you!

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Approximate Time Stamps:

Introduction and Welcome - 0:23

Today's Verse - 1:18

Sponsor Break - 1:30

Main Topic Introduction - 1:38

Premature Ejaculation Discussion - 2:17

Strategies and Techniques - 5:59

Pelvic Floor Exercises - 10:30

Mindfulness and Breathing - 13:25

Relational Dynamics - 18:24

Foreplay and Time Management - 22:32

Professional Help and Devices - 24:27

Conclusion and Prayer - 27:28 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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