248: Should Our Tween Dictate Our Post-Divorce Visitation Schedule?
Ask Lisa: Untangling Family LifeShow Notes
When parents divorce, how much say should a tween or teen have in deciding where they live, and how often they switch homes?
Divorce is hard on everyone, but for kids it often comes with a lot of upheaval. In this episode, Dr. Lisa Damour and journalist Reena Ninan unpack what divorced parents can do to minimize the emotional toll on their kids, ease the challenge of moving back-and-forth between homes, and create arrangements that grow with their child’s needs.
Drawing on decades of clinical experience, Dr. Lisa helps parents understand the situation from their child’s perspective and offers compassionate, practical strategies to reduce conflict, simplify logistics, and strengthen co-parenting teamwork.
💡 YOU’LL LEARN:
- Why divorce often leaves kids feeling like “a human ping-pong ball”
- What an ideal post-divorce setup looks like (and why it’s rarely possible)
- How visitation schedules can evolve as tweens mature and seek more independence
- How the mindset shift from “ex” to “co-parent” helps everyone
Whether you’re newly divorced or years into co-parenting, this episode will help you see the challenges through your child’s eyes and remind you that stability, empathy, and teamwork make all the difference.
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