Show Notes
How honest is too honest? Should you mix your friendship groups? Are secrets ever okay and are soul-mates really a thing? This week we tackle some tricky questions and get into the unwritten rules of friendships and relationships.
The Sandwich Club is for women in the middle — juggling kids, parents, work, money, bodies and everything in between.
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There are some things everyone seems to love. Camping, yoga, networking, fancy cheese. And then there is the rest of us. This week we are talking about things we have pretended to enjoy, things we have tried to understand and things we can finally admit, actually I don't like it. So what does everyone else rave about that you just don't get?
Apparently forgiveness is good for you. Fine. But doesn't forgiving someone mean you actually have to speak to them again? This week we are talking grudges, boundaries, and the point where you realise you are not resentful anymore – you just don't particularly care.
We like to think we are pretty easygoing. Until someone loads the dishwasher wrong. this week we are talking all the things we have become particular about. How to make a cup of tea, where things go in the fridge and which way the toilet roll hangs. Turns out we are very relaxed people, as long as everyone does things properly.
Dylan Thomas told us not to "go gentle into that good night", but then he wasn't dealing with dodgy knees, reading glasses and getting up twice in the night. This week we are borrowing his famous poem to talk about ageing.
The difficult conversations that arrive as parents age. Needing help, accepting help and what happens when "I'm fine" clearly isn't the whole story. Not a how to, just grappling with the reality of trying to have that conversation at all.