Show Notes
The foundations you build before welcoming foster children into your home will determine whether you merely survive or truly thrive in this challenging calling. Drawing from both professional expertise and personal experience, this episode walks you through four essential preparations every prospective foster parent needs to prioritize. How are you preparing your foundation? Your investment in these four areas will determine not just your longevity as a foster parent but your effectiveness i...
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