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Sonya Prior (@thebbnamer) on Surprise Pregnancies, Learning to Trust Yourself, Instinctive Parenting, and Allllll Things Baby Names

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Show Notes

This week the Aotearoa baby naming queen taking TikTok by storm Sonya Prior (@thebbnamer) is here! I forced Sonya to be my friend after finding her content because I knew we were birds of a feather, and I was totally right. Sonya generously shared so much of her parenting story with me this week, including surprise pregnancies, her non-perfect births, not letting your childhood affect the childhood you create for your kids, finding the fun in everything, and how to not panic about the world maybe being on fire? I understand why she is the darling of the baby naming world because she is someone I could talk to for hours and not get bored. Please go and send her some love for her vulnerability, honesty, generosity, and crack up-ness in this episode. You'll find her @thebbnamer across socials. A huge thank you to Bear and Moo for sponsoring this episode! I'd be totally lost without you guys. Use code WDYPLT10 at checkout for a 10% discount code.

Resources mentioned in this episode: Brene Brown's Family Gap Plan PhD Mama NZ (@phdmamanz) Charlotte Bruce Kells' instagram post about Chappell Roan See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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