A Gay and A NonGay

Regional Gays & Lavender Marriages

A Gay and A NonGay

Show Notes

We're here for another Summer episode of A Gay And A NonGay. With James at Edinburgh Fringe, we're focusing on the really big questions in life...

So, after we debate killing a fly or not, James & Dan are talking about regional gays (who even are they?!), why lavender marriages are making a comeback and the bizarre rules around who gets financial support in relationships.

James questions why we don’t just marry our friends, while Dan admits he’d rather be “unstable” than marry a bloke for tax breaks.

Plus, the debate gets heated! Maybe attractive people do have it better after all...

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